She constantly thinks about him, anxiously rereads his messages, and her mood swings with his actions. Is this genuine love or something more complex?

Over-attachment often stems from deeper personal issues—past wounds, childhood trauma, or unresolved insecurities. It’s usually a response to emotional needs that haven’t been fulfilled.

These patterns often trace back to early life experiences. A lack of parental affection, unstable family dynamics, or exposure to conflict can lead to an anxious approach to relationships. In these cases, love becomes more than affection—it turns into an escape or a way to fill emotional gaps.