Why do some doctors advise against kissing a deceased loved one?

A farewell kiss can be a deeply emotional gesture—but under certain conditions, it may pose health risks.

Dr. Viktor Ivanovik, a Moldovan physician popular on TikTok, recently went viral for warning against kissing deceased loved ones, especially if they passed from infectious illnesses. While rare, post-mortem transmission of harmful bacteria or viruses can occur.

Diseases such as tuberculosis, hepatitis, and some viral fevers may still pose risks even after death. Public health experts advise caution, particularly during outbreaks or if the cause of death involved infection.

Though cultural and personal traditions often encourage touching or kissing the deceased, safety should come first. Grieving families may not always know the full medical background, increasing the risk of exposure.

When unsure, it’s best to consult a doctor or funeral professional. They can offer guidance on whether direct contact is safe and suggest precautions if needed.

There are also meaningful alternatives to a farewell kiss. Placing a flower, writing a letter, or lighting a candle can provide emotional closure while minimizing health risks.

It’s important to remember that the love and connection we feel for someone doesn’t depend on physical gestures alone.

In the end, the most meaningful goodbyes come from the heart—not necessarily from touch.